The people you are attracted to represent your hopes. The people you can get along with in a relationship, people you are compatible with, represent reality. Conflict and turmoil abound if hopes do not match up with reality.
Examine the mechanisms by which attraction and hopes form and reality occurs, and why they diverge.
The canonical example is people hope to marry up in social class, but habits and behavior makes them compatible with only their social class.
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